How to dress a wriggly baby without a battle

Set up before you pick them up

Most dressing battles are lost before they begin, while you hunt for the second sock with a half-dressed baby rolling away. Lay the whole outfit out in the order it goes on: nappy, bodysuit, top, trousers, socks. Open every snap and zip, undo any shoulder buttons, and scrunch each sleeve and trouser leg down to its cuff so it is ready to slide straight on.

Warm the room first on a cold morning, especially in a Lahore or Islamabad winter when floors and walls hold the chill. Keep one thing within reach that your baby only gets at dressing time, such as a clean spoon, a soft book or a crinkly toy. Something new to hold keeps small hands busy for the minute or two you need.

An order that works

There is no single right order, but this one avoids most of the fights.

• Nappy first, while they are still lying calmly and before anything else distracts them.
• Top half next. A baby with their chest covered feels less exposed and often settles.
• Trousers after that, because legs are the part that kicks. If they are wild, do trousers with them sitting on your lap or standing against the sofa.
• Socks last, or skip them indoors if the floor is warm and they are in a footed sleepsuit.

Reach through, don’t push

Pushing a small fist into a long sleeve rarely works: the fingers catch and the baby pulls back. Instead, gather the sleeve into a ring over your own hand, reach through from the cuff end, hold your baby’s hand and draw the fabric up over their arm. The same trick works for trouser legs and the feet of a sleepsuit: gather, reach through, hold the foot, slide.

Use the same few words every time, like “arm in, other arm, now legs”. Babies learn the rhythm, and many start helping by pushing an arm through before their first birthday. That is the very beginning of the self-dressing that comes later.

When they twist and roll away

Rolling and twisting usually starts somewhere between four and six months, and it can make every change feel like a wrestling match. Work with the roll rather than against it: do the back of a top while they are on their tummy, then roll them over to finish the front. There is more on this stage in dressing your baby stage by stage.

Dress an active baby on a mat on the floor if you can. If you use a bed or a changing table, keep one hand on them the whole time.

Clothes that make it quicker

• Wide or buttoned necklines. The Oatmeal Teddy Ribbed Top & Jogger Set has two shoulder buttons, so the neck opens wider over the head.
• Front-opening sleepsuits with snaps, like the Sky Blue Teddy & Stars Footed Sleepsuit: lay your baby on it and close it up the front, with nothing passing over their face.
• Elasticated waists with nothing to fasten.
• Ribbed cuffs, so sleeves stay down once they are on and don’t need pulling straight again.
• The right size. A piece that is too snug is the hardest of all to get on, so check our size guide when things start to feel like a squeeze.

Know when to do the minimum

If your baby is hungry, overtired or unwell, dressing will go badly whatever you do. A clean nappy and a comfortable sleepsuit are enough until they have fed or slept. Save the full outfit, and anything with lots of buttons, for when they are calm and you are not in a hurry.

The guide to romper, sleepsuit, jumpsuit or dungarees explains which styles are simplest for everyday wear, and our growing baby posts cover each stage, from rolling to toddlers who insist on doing it themselves.

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